So how can we take that risk and let other people know who we are and what we’re going through? Firstly, we need to figure out why we get that feeling of fear rising up when we think about taking our mask off and spend some time to work through those things. Then it’s time to accept ourselves. That’s easier said than done. Often, we’re our own harshest critics. But we’re God’s masterpiece. It’s cliché but it’s true. He has created us in His image and accepts us as we are. If we can get to the stage of accepting ourselves then our fears of rejection or being unlovable will start to fade. Next, we need to move from thinking about taking off the mask to giving it a go. Open up to a couple of people, maybe a family member or a few friends, and share what’s going on in your life right now. Share your worries, stresses, struggles along with the great stuff too. Ask people for support and ask them to pray. God wants us to live in community, to help people out and ‘carry each other’s burdens.’ Take Moses. When he was getting tired of keeping his hands raised to ensure Israel’s victory, his friends held up his hands for him (Exodus 17:12). So, as well as removing our own mask, let’s also be people who are open to listening to other people and are committed to journeying through life together. Being ‘real’, authentic and vulnerable is so needed if we’re going to be that society who help each other through life. Are you ready to take off that mask?
What now?
Team up with someone you trust. Make a promise to meet up regularly and share the best thing and the worst thing that’s happened to each of you that week. Then spend some time praying together about those things.